Bittersweet, that's what this is. Writing this blog has been very helpful to our memories, cathartic at times, but honestly a whole lot like work, so I won't lie and tell you I'll miss this part of the adventure. I will miss the kind notes and emails of support we've had along the way which were often the nudge I needed to keep it going.
We left October 5th, 2009 in the rain, returning November 26th, 2010 in the rain, with very interesting and often record breaking weather in between. Mike dumped the tanks, swept the roof, unhooked, and connected the car one last time before climbing (wet) into the driver's seat.
We have been asked often our favorite courses, places to live, where the kindest people are, how many courses we played, and for other insights into what it's like doing something that so many people say "they always wanted to do".
Where do I begin? First, no state or region has the kindest people. We met over-the-top friendly and helpful people at every stop, except of course that grocery store in Milwaukee. Good people are everywhere and a simple smile can help you unlock even the seemingly grumpy ones (apart from the Milwaukee dude). We met new friends at golf courses all over the country but the most new pals came from RV parks and Service Bays. To quote an unknown RVer, "I never met a lifelong friend staying at a Holiday Inn." Along the way we were hooked up with friends of friends, relatives of friends, all who took us in as if we were part of the family. What an experience and one we are anxious to pay forward!
Favorite courses:
Tobacco Road, NC, Arcadia Bluffs, MI, Wolf Creek, NV, Bay Harbor, MI, Chambers Bay, WA, Dove Mountain, AZ are the top six that stick out for both of us. Remember we golfed on a modest budget so unless we could talk the head pro into $100 per round or less, we opted out. After our riding tour of Bandon Dunes (like Pebble in unwillingness to stray from the silly green fees), we liked all of the six above more.
Favorite potential golf communities:
We narrowed it down to three in FL, two on the west coast (Bradenton's Waterlefe and Fort Myer's Gulf Harbor) and one on the east coast (Mariner Sands in Stuart). But after logic kicked in, the high property taxes and insurance in Florida offset what we would save in cart fees so we ruled out all of those clubs.
We also liked Savannah Quarters and Reynolds Plantation in Georgia and Entrada in St. George, Utah. All of these met our stringent requirements for year round golf, no cart fees, very reasonable initiation and monthly dues. Unfortunately the Savannah one didn't pass Mike's no bug policy.
Bottom line is we can't agree (if you know us, this won't surprise you) and after a meeting with our realtor, we will be staying put anyhow. The sign is already gone. Seems some foreclosures have dropped pricing in the neighborhood to less than half what we paid for our house. Huge UGH. As I've always said, we love the people here, the four championship courses at Barefoot are among the best in the state, so the plan B of staying put is a pretty great consolation prize. I'll have to work on management for a frequent flyer rate for all of my cart fees, or God forbid, play less!
How many courses did we play? I counted 143 logo balls so that's close. There were maybe half a dozen that we weren't able to pick up a ball for one reason or another. Now what do I do with them?
As for other insights to our lifestyle...Probably the most challenging part of being within 40 feet of the one you love 24/7 is sharing a 3' x 3' bathroom. You'll need three things: patience, compromise, and a scented candle. Life can be frustrating sometimes so being able to go with the flow is crucial, something I learned in the first few days of the trip with all of the mechanical problems at the onset that never seemed to stop even with a brand spanking sparkly new motorhome.
Which brings me to this summary:
Casualties of the trip: one 41 foot motorhome, one computer, three cameras, one printer, and one very valuable and beloved member of our family, Pepper. I cried a few times when our trip was disrupted for too long due to mechanical problems, but nothing compared to by far the lowest moment of our trip when our dear girl got sick. I must change the subject before I soak the keyboard.
I learned how little you need and how much I can now give away. Returning to our cluttered home, overflowing cabinets and closets, it hit me hard how little I really missed. I was giddy to see my favorite cocktail glass and coffee mug that I didn't dare bring with us in our perpetual earthquake of a home. I am anxious to see our golf cart, which I understand we may have to fight Lou, Geri, and Bella to regain. I may have gotten a little misty at seeing our bathtub. Mike kissed the floor of our enormous walk-in shower. Peanut raced off to his favorite chair. Other than that, and friends of course, we didn't miss much "stuff".
If potential RVers are thinking this is an inexpensive endeavor, I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news. We thankfully had a good year of diesel prices, and beyond that, there are the campground fees, greens fees, meals, and of course the vodka for cosmo time that comes everyday whether you want it to or not. But what price do you put on being able to go anywhere for as long as you want without being molested by airport security? Better than that was being able to see friends and family all over the country that logistics normally preclude. Seeing friends we hadn't seen in as many as 30 years was worth every penny of the fuel price.
We were also able to see many of the national parks and indescribable beauty this country offers including Niagara Falls, Yellowstone, Glacier National, Zion, Lake Powell, the Grand Canyon, Sedona, and the most darling little towns along the way in places like, Vermont, Pennsylvania, Montana, and hell, even Iowa! Thanks to the kindness of friends and strangers we were able to boat on Lake George in New York, Turtle Bay in Sarasota, the Mississippi River in Wisconsin, and Lake Travis in Austin.
What saddens me is how much is still out there that we didn't see in nearly 14 months of traveling. It felt as though we were rushing from place to place and yet we barely scratched the surface of the remarkable beauty held within the borders of this magnificent country. Yet, we got to see so much more than most will ever see. There were children we met along the way that had never crossed a state line. There are many adults I know (and was one) that spend so much of their business life traveling and never get a chance to SEE the places they go to beyond the boardrooms, restaurants, and quiet hotel rooms. We are very fortunate to be able to do something that most will only dream of. This is not lost on us.
We are home now and were able to enjoy one last cosmo time in the RV with friends Pete and Mechelle who were in town for the week.
For nostalgic reasons we forced them to imbibe inside the rig, but eventually we did let them in the house. Like so many they were very helpful throughout our travels that it seemed fitting to have our final RV cosmo time with them. Plus Mechelle put in a special request to taste our various adult beverages. Who am I to refuse?
We have spent the last two days emptying out and cleaning the motorhome, getting it ready to sell. Mr. Grouchy Pants is telling me my break is over....
I cannot begin to show my gratitude to all who made this journey possible and added so much to the overall flavor of the experience. We're home now and the welcome mat is out..pay back time! Come on down, or up, or over!
If you have even a slight itch to see the country and can afford it, what are you waiting for? The kids to get out of college, grandma to keel over, the rain to stop, a bar mitzvah? We just so happen to have a beautiful RV available with 22,000 original miles and all of the kinks worked out! Kidding aside, we're an email away if we can help in any way or answer a question. peanut_rosenfeld@hotmail.com
From the bottom of our full hearts, we thank you for listening.
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